THE 6 PILLARS AT SEA MARRIAGE GETAWAY

THE 6 PILLARS AT SEA MARRIAGE GETAWAY

Enjoy Fun Adventures as you Sail Away Together and Experience the Extraordinary Marriage You Desire!

When: April 6th - 12th, 2025
Where: On Board the Royal Caribbean Freedom of the Seas for a 6 Night Western Caribbean Cruise (Cruising Itinerary)
Who: Space is Limited! Only 35 17 Spots Available.

ARE YOU PART OF THE ONE FAMILY

WHO IS…

  • Seeking direction on where you want to take your life as husband and wife?
  • Committed to one another, healed, grown, achieved a lot, and have “arrived” at your initial marriage milestones… but now you’re stepping into a new phase, wondering, “what now?”
  • Familiar with The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework and has been able to move things forward but are feeling somehow unfulfilled, dissatisfied, or exhausted by your attempts to creating deeper intimacy?
  • Having children, friends, or family look to you for direction and a vision to follow, but you struggle to guide them because you’re not totally clear yourself?
OR MAYBE….
  • You’re passionate about sharing what you’ve experienced in your marriage, but you have a difficult time communicating it to those around you so they get it.
  • You’re clear about what you want in certain areas of your life but not others.
  • You’re clear on what you want in your career or business… but not your relationship together or with others. Or vice-versa.
  • You want to grow faster in one or more of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, but you keep getting dragged into the day-to-day busyness by your work or other factors and can’t seem to get the BIG breakthrough.
  • You have the one extraordinary marriage vision, but your friends or family don't see it, and it’s frustrating because you feel like you’re on two different channels.

If you find yourself nodding your head, you’re invited to register for…

The 6 Pillars At Sea Marriage Getaway

ARE YOU PART OF THE ONE FAMILY

WHO IS…

  • Seeking direction on where you want to take your life as husband and wife?
  • Committed to one another, healed, grown, and achieved a lot, and have “arrived” at your initial marriage milestones… but now you’re stepping into a new phase, wondering, “what now?”
  • Familiar with The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework and has been able to move things forward but are feeling somehow unfulfilled, dissatisfied, or exhausted by the way you’ve been building and creating deeper intimacy?
  • Having children, friends, or family looking to you for direction and a vision to follow, but you struggle to guide them because you’re not totally clear yourself?
OR MAYBE….
  • You’re passionate about sharing what you’ve experienced in your marriage, but you have a difficult time communicating it to those around you so they get it.
  • You’re clear about what you want in certain areas of your life but not others.
  • You’re clear on what you want in your career or business… but not your relationship together or with others. Or vice-versa.
  • You want to grow faster in one or more of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, but you keep getting dragged into the day-to-day busyness by your work or other factors and can’t seem to get the BIG breakthrough.
  • You have the one extraordinary marriage vision, but your friends or family don't see it, and it’s frustrating because you feel like you’re on two different channels.

If you find yourself nodding your head, you’re invited to register for…

The 6 Pillars At Sea Marriage Getaway

WHAT PAST ATTENDEES ARE SAYING...

We Learned From Other Couples

The first 6 Pillars in Paradise was an incredible experience. Tony and Alisa brought together couples with such a broad range of years together, and a continuum of health in their marriage. As always, we learned so much from Alisa and Tony, but the surprise was all we learned from other couples who were there seeking an extraordinary marriage. Through the discussions and sessions, we learned from others who are learning from OEM. We heard things in a new way. It was wonderful to be in such a marriage-positive and sex-positive gathering. We can’t wait to get back together next year!

Eye-Opening Experience

The experience was one-of-a-kind and so much more than I expected. I was able to connect with my husband in a way I couldn't imagine. We talked on a deeper level than ever before and we made time to just talk about us. It was great to hear other couples talking about positive marriages and the struggles they endure. It gave the feeling like we were not the only couple to struggle with these obstacles. Hearing other couples, especially men, opening up and being vulnerable was comforting. I could use all the adjectives here. We will most certainly attend every year that we are able. 

A Breath of Fresh Air

The 6 Pillars in Paradise Marriage Retreat was a breath of fresh air. It was so encouraging to be around other couples who have gone through things we are experiencing and who can share their insights and perspectives. We felt so rested when we returned home, even despite filling our days with tons of activities. It was a moment to just be alone as spouses, learn from others, and have intentional time set aside to talk about what we want our marriage to be. 

DIVE INTO THE 6 PILLARS OF INTIMACY®

Go beyond the words on the page or the podcast to bring The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® to life in your marriage. With in-person teaching from Tony and Alisa, real time opportunities to connect with them during the marriage getaway, and couples' exercises to do at the getaway and at home, this is your chance to build your 6 Pillars of Intimacy® marriage toolbox.

QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR LOVE

You know that time away with your love is special and it serves as a reset for your connection. The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway is an extraordinary way to disconnect from daily life so the two of you can connect with one another, strengthen your connection, and enjoy uninterrupted time—just the two of you.

YOUR OWN EXTRAORDINARY MARRIAGE COMMUNITY

One of the biggest requests that we hear from the ONE Family is this…How do we connect with others who want to have an extraordinary marriage? The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway is your answer. With couples coming to the Western Caribbean from all over, you’ll make new friends and get to spend time with other couples who not only understand The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework, but who are using it to build their own extraordinary marriage. Surround yourself with people who are doing life well.

SOAK IN THE VITAMIN SEA

Warm water, white sandy beaches, ocean breezes…everything the two of you need to rest, relax, and get away from the stresses of your day-to-day life. Let’s face it, getting away to warm weather, beautiful blue water, and the ocean lapping at your feet sounds like heaven.

NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT ONCE YOU GET THERE

Two words: All inclusive. It’s incredible to go on vacation and not have to think about finances. When the two of you pay for a vacation ahead of time, you get to travel without financial stress.

*Alcohol, Souvenirs, Tours, and Excursions are not included in the package price.

ALL-INCLUSIVE DINING

The marriage getaway includes all dining during your time on the cruise, which includes breakfast, lunch, dinner, soft drinks, and snacks that will keep you nourished and energized throughout the day.
Dining Option:
— Main Dining Room
— Windjammer Cafe
— Cafe Promenade
— Sorrento's
— El Loco Fresh
— Room Service
More experiences. More venues. More technology.
SET SAIL ON THE FREEDOM OF THE SEAS.
Looking for adventure on the high seas? Head to the FlowRider surf simulator or our signature rock-climbing wall. Can’t wait to sit back and relax? Our Vitality at Sea Spa, pools and whirlpools are just the thing. There truly is something for everyone on board Freedom of the Seas.

  • 14 dining options
  • Multiple Bars and Lounges
  • 4 pools, 6 whirlpools
  • The Perfect Storm℠
  • FlowRider surf simulator
  • Rock Climbing Wall
  • Ice-skating rink
  • Laser Tag
  • Mini Golf
  • Basketball Court
  • Full service Vitality at Sea Spa and state-of-the-art Fitness Center

LUXURY ACCOMODATIONS

OCEAN VIEW STATEROOM

Rest and Relaxation

As your Royal Caribbean cruise sails through the Western Caribbean, you don’t want to miss a single moment. 

In an Ocean View stateroom, you’ll be treated to a beautiful new view every day! 

Spend the day exploring the world, then retreat to your comfortable, well-appointed stateroom and don’t miss a thing.

*Pricing Does Not Include Air Travel
  • 1 Queen Bed
  • 12 Available
  • See Below for Amenities

OCEAN VIEW STATEROOM

Rest and Relaxation

As your Royal Caribbean cruise sails through the Western Caribbean, you don’t want to miss a single moment. 

In an Ocean View stateroom, you’ll be treated to a beautiful new view every day! 

Spend the day exploring the world, then retreat to your comfortable, well-appointed stateroom and don’t miss a thing.

*Pricing Does Not Include Air Travel
  • 1 Queen Bed
  • 12 Available
  • See Below for Amenities

OCEAN VIEW BALCONY STATEROOM

Private Balcony with Ocean View

Imagine waking up every morning, opening your balcony door, and being greeted with views of a brand-new and breathtaking part of the world.

While in your Royal Caribbean Balcony stateroom you'll enjoy spectacular vistas each and every day from the comfort and privacy of your own room.

We believe the best way to explore the world is by sea – and a Balcony stateroom is the perfect way to get a little bit closer to everything!

*Pricing Does Not Include Air Travel
  • 1 Queen Bed
  • 5 Available
  • See Below for Amenities

OCEAN VIEW BALCONY STATEROOM

Private Balcony with Ocean View

Imagine waking up every morning, opening your balcony door, and being greeted with views of a brand-new and breathtaking part of the world.

While in your Royal Caribbean Balcony stateroom you'll enjoy spectacular vistas each and every day from the comfort and privacy of your own room.

We believe the best way to explore the world is by sea – and a Balcony stateroom is the perfect way to get a little bit closer to everything!

*Pricing Does Not Include Air Travel
  • 1 Queen Bed
  • 5 Available
  • See Below for Amenities

STATEROOM AMENITIES:

STATEROOM AMENITIES:

  • Luxurious Bedding
  • One Queen-Size Bed
  • Sitting Area
  • Private bath with shower, vanity area, and hair dryer
  • Daily stocked personalized mini bar
  • Round-the-Clock Stateroom Attendant
  • Nightly Turn-Down Service
  • Interactive TV & Movies
  • In-Room Safe
  • Phone and Voicemail Service
  • 24-Hour Room Service* (A late-night service charge applies.)
  • Luxurious Bedding
  • One Queen-Size Bed
  • Sitting Area
  • Private bath with shower, vanity area, and hair dryer
  • Daily stocked personalized mini bar
  • Round-the-Clock Stateroom Attendant
  • Nightly Turn-Down Service
  • Interactive TV & Movies
  • In-Room Safe
  • Phone and Voicemail Service
  • 24-Hour Room Service* (A late-night service charge applies.)

COMPLIMENTARY DINING

MAIN DINING ROOM

With sweeping, multi-level ambiance, world-class cuisine, and extraordinary personal service, our main dining room serves exceptional, multi-course meals for breakfast, lunch, and dinner each day.

CAFÉ PROMENADE

Located in the multi-level Royal Promenade at the heart of our ships – and the best spot for people-watching – Café Promenade serves coffee, snacks, pastries, and sandwiches around the clock. Open 24 hours a day, it’s perfect for satisfying your late-night cravings.

WINDJAMMER CAFÉ

Enjoy an assortment of global cuisines and American favorites at this casual dining destination with spectacular views and a comfortable atmosphere that welcomes guests for breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

SORRENTO’S

Savor an authentic New York-style pizzeria experience with traditional pizzas as well as rotating creations like Hawaiian and Pizza Florentine.

EL LOCO FRESH

Stop into El Loco Fresh to satisfy your craving for fresh-made Mexican favorites, like burritos, tacos and salsas. The craziest thing about it is just how good it is.

ROOM SERVICE

Whether you’re craving breakfast, lunch, dinner or an afternoon snack, get it delivered with Room Service, available 24/7.

Meet Tony &  Alisa DiLorenzo

Over our 27 years of marriage, we’ve learned some hard life lessons and we’ve discovered key principles that have kept our marriage (and sex life) alive and flourishing… and we did it together.

Our desire is to do the same for you!⁠

⁠You strive to grow, get better, and have the marriage you desire. You want to leave a lasting impact on those around you.

But sometimes things get in the way.

There just seems to be too much to do and too little time for you to look at each other, talk to each other, and connect with each other.

Be honest:
  • Do you wish for the same level of connection and intimacy you once had?
  • Do you need the emotional skills to stay in sync with your partner?
  • Do you fear the important things are falling through the cracks?
If so, you’re not alone. All of us have felt this way.

We Know How You Feel

We know what it feels like to have cracks in our pillars and not be connected emotionally, to build trust and focus on our sexual intimacy, and to have stress and the daily grind of life zap you of all energy, while still trying to attend to the things that matter most—family, health, faith, and community.

For years, we struggled to get on the same page. Too often, our success in other areas came at the expense of our connection and closeness.

We have faced the stark reality that there’s always more to do than there is time.

The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®

At its best, your marriage is a balance between your spouse, kids, family, and all the other activities that are pulling at you.

The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway is an opportunity for you to dial in on how each of the six intimacies is showing up in your marriage so your marriage can continue to strengthen and grow on solid ground.
Emotional Intimacy: Creating closeness through sharing feelings, thoughts, and desires.

Physical Intimacy: Holding hands, hugs, kisses, cuddles, and other non-sexual touches.

Financial Intimacy: Sharing of your financial situation as you develop a plan for your financial future.

Spiritual Intimacy: Sharing religious beliefs and observed religious practices.

Recreational Intimacy: Spending time with your spouse through activities and fun.

Sexual Intimacy: Romance, initiating, foreplay, and sexual intercourse with your spouse.
Most couples wouldn’t think twice about planning a vacation or attending a conference…This marriage getaway is the best of both worlds.

This can be a time for you to experience new breakthroughs while unplugging from the stress and distractions that keep you and your spouse from experiencing the extraordinary marriage you desire and deserve.
CRUISING ITINERARY
  • Sunday, April 6, 2025 — Depart Fort Lauderdale, Florida 4:00 PM — The 6 Pillars at Sea Welcome Reception
  • Monday, April 7, 2025 — Nassau, Bahamas 7:00 AM - 4:00 PM
  • Tuesday, April 8, 2025 — Cruising / The 6 Pillars at Sea Sessions
  • Wednesday, April 9, 2025 — Falmouth, Jamaica 7:00 AM - 4:00 PM
  • Thursday, April 10, 2025 — Port TBD 9:30 AM - 6:00 PM
  • Friday, April 11, 2025 — Cruising / The 6 Pillars at Sea Sessions
  • Saturday, April 12, 2025 — Arrive Fort Lauderdale, Florida 6:00 AM
TENTATIVE SESSION SCHEDULE
  • Sunday, April 6th — Welcome Reception, Olive or Twist 6:00 PM – 7:00 PM
  • Tuesday, April 8th — Session 1: Olive or Twist 8:00 AM – 11:00 AM
  • Thursday, April 10th - Session 2: Olive or Twist - 8:00 AM – 11:00 AM
  • Friday, April 11th — Session 3: Olive or Twist 2:00 PM – 5:00 PM
  • Friday, April 11th — Farewell Reception, Olive or Twist 6:00 PM – 7:00 PM
Session schedule will be finalized prior to the start of The 6 Pillars at Sea Marriage Getaway.

MORE FROM PAST ATTENDEES...

Everyone is Investing in Something

We invest our time, money, attention, and focus.

Over the past few days Rachael and I have been making an investment in our marriage at the ONE Extraordinary Marriage event in Cancun.

We have taken many vacations but vacations and resets don’t guarantee you have focused conversations about your marriage and create a powerful vision for your future.

This trip is different.

It’s powerful to be in a room with couples dedicated to making their marriage thrive.
We saw first hand how the work Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo have dedicated themselves to is impacting marriages.

What a Difference a Year Makes

A marriage worth having is a marriage worth working for. (Bonus if you get to do some of that work with a beautiful backdrop!)

Mr. B and I just returned from another GREAT marriage retreat with Alisa DiLorenzo (author of the book — “The 6 Pillars of Intimacy” Emotional, Physical, Financial, Recreation, Spiritual & Sexual) and Tony. (her husband and co-host of the podcast “ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show”) 

We attended last years event NEEDING the experience and with the HUGE positive impact we signed up for this years without hesitation!

Coming Back for a Third Time

Shana and I have had a wonderful time with old and new friends at The 6 Pillars In Paradise Marriage Getaway 2024. We have known each other since 1st grade and have been married for almost 23 years and we are still learning about each other and strengthening our relationship.

In addition to the high quality content Tony and Alisa have been sharing, we have shared many impactful conversations at breakfast, lunch, dinner, in the pool, in the hall between sessions, and in the sessions themselves. 

We have already signed up for next year’s event because we have gained so much from these last two events and look forward to the conversations we will share next year about our growth over this year and how we will continue to grow. And it makes 100 degree Oklahoma summer days and 40 degree Oklahoma winter days a little more tolerable knowing a new adventure with our friends in wonderful weather is on the calendar.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

What does pricing include?
Includes luxury accommodations, all-inclusive dining options, and group sessions with Tony & Alisa, from the time you set sail to the time you return to port in Ft. Lauderdale. Does not includes air travel, alcohol, souvenirs, and tours and excursions.

What is the refund policy? And what happens if we need to cancel? 
  • Your $1000 deposit is non-refundable. Once you register, this amount is NOT refundable. 
  • Up to November 2, 2024: All monies LESS the $1000 non-refundable deposit plus 2-Night Cancellation Penalty will be refunded.
  • November 3, 2024 to January 20, 2025: All monies LESS the $1000 non-refundable deposit plus 4-Night Cancellation Penalty will be refunded.
  • After January 20, 2025: No refund issued after this date.
***To cancel your reservation, you must email our Customer Care Team with your name, phone number, and registration number. Refunds will be based on dates above.
Is airfare included? 
Airfare is not included in the getaway pricing.

You’ll want to fly into Fort Lauderdale-Hollywood International Airport (airport code FLL). The airport is approximately 15 minutes from the Royal Caribbean Port depending on traffic. 

Is transportation to Royal Caribbean Port and to FLL included?
Transportation to and from the cruise is NOT included. You will need to secure your transportation (shuttle van, ride share, etc.) to the Royal Caribbean Port and Fort Lauderdale-Hollywood International Airport.

What if we are not married? 
The getaway is designed for married couples and we ask that all attendees be married.

Do we need passports?
You will need a valid passport book to travel on the cruise. Please check the expiration date on your current passport to make sure it will be valid during the trip dates. A passport card or birth certificate will not be accepted to travel outside of the US.

Do we need a visa? What travel documentations do we need?
It’s your responsibility to ensure you have all the proper documentation to board the ship. Click here to get on board with the right travel documents.

Is the getaway designed for couples having serious challenges? Or on the brink of divorce? 
It is not. If you are experiencing serious challenges or feel your marriage is on the brink of divorce, we would recommend you first start with coaching so that you can get your marriage into a healthier season, so you can enjoy the marriage getaway.

What will the schedule look like? How much free time will we have? 
The plan is to have teachings in the morning (but not too early because hey “morning sex” is a good thing) and to wrap up by lunch. Afternoons and evenings will be for you to connect with one another and the other couples who are attending the getaway.

What if we want to do excursions? 
The cruise and port towns offer tours and excursions however these are not included in the getaway pricing.
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