FAQ

Could Keeping (or Restoring) A Happy, Healthy, Deeply Satisfying Connection With Your Spouse Be This Easy?

Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage?

Can you strengthen your bond, evolve and grow together, and enjoy new deep levels of love and intimacy that rival your newlywed days?

And, more importantly, can you do any or all of that without having to digest mountains of psychology books, or pouring your hearts out to a total stranger in endless counseling sessions?
Yes, it is... and today, you’ll see how easy it just may be for you!
But before we show you, allow us to say hello and introduce ourselves. 
We’re Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo and we are passionate about helping couples have extraordinary marriages. 
In fact, maybe you found your way here because you saw us on FOX News, The CW, or online... or you heard us interviewed on “The Chalene Show,” “Ask Dr. Drew,” “Blended Kingdom Families,” or another podcast. 

Perhaps you found your way here because of our Amazon Best Seller, The 6 Pillars of Intimacy, or one of our other five published paperbacks, like the best-selling “7 Days of Sex Challenge.”  

Or maybe... just maybe, you’ve tuned in to our #1 podcast, the “ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show” as we connect with an audience around the world.
Regardless of how you got here, we’re delighted you did! And, we promise you’ll walk away from this better equipped to have the kind of marriage you desire and deserve.
Because today, you’re going to discover a totally unique way of identifying and understanding what causes “cracks” to appear in even the best marriages.

And, you’ll see how to prevent cracks from happening, and - in most cases - if they have already occurred, you’ll see how to easily repair them. 
How Did We Discover 
What Causes The Cracks?
When Tony and I got married back in 1996, we thought it would be smooth sailing. (Boy, were we wrong!) 

Eleven years later, we had amassed a hefty list of marital challenges, and even though we had worked through them, instead of growing closer, we found ourselves further apart. 

Sure, we were living together, doing “life” in the same place, but not in the same “space.” I think a good analogy is like being in the same grocery store, at the same time, but not only not shopping together... not even discussing what needs to be purchased.
We were face-to-face with the possibility of our marriage ending!
Fortunately, there was a different plan for us. We stumbled onto the idea of challenging ourselves to make love for a specific number of days. Ironically, at the time, we weren’t even spending any time being close to each other, let alone having sex! 

The hope was that if we were intentional about this, it might help restore some sort of connection to each other.
Wow... Did that Challenge Give Us 
More Than We Bargained For!
It brought to light the things that had been slowly, consistently, and in many cases - invisibly - eroding the foundation of our marriage... in other words, we discovered the cause of our cracks.

Once our eyes were opened, once we could see these cracks and their causes, we began to address them. Each of us focused on doing things differently... and wonder of wonders, our marriage started to improve. 

People started to notice. And as we shared our unusual story of transformation with other couples, word spread and before we knew it, we were being asked to speak to groups and work with other couples! 

Over time, we realized there were many common factors in every marriage, but pretty quickly, one thing began to stick out above all else:
There Are 6 Intimacies At the Heart of 
Every Extraordinary Marriage! 
This observation was so exciting to us, we decided to share it with the world in our first book, Stripped Down: 13 Keys to Unlocking Intimacy in Your Marriage.

We spent the next 10 years studying not only our marriage, but the marriages of other couples around the world, and these six intimacies have shown themselves time and time again. 

We now call these “The 6 Pillars of Intimacy” because they are the support structures that hold your marriage together. 

As long as they are solid and straight, they keep your marriage thriving and ensure everything goes along smoothly.

But if they begin to lean, form cracks, or in any way become damaged, your marriage starts to collapse.

Intimacy Is More Than Just Sex... 

Intimacy is a word used to describe the closeness between a husband and wife... but did you know that it's more than just great conversation or good sex?
 
In fact, the first time people hear us talk about the 6 different intimacies that contribute to an extraordinary marriage, many people are shocked and surprised! 
Often, being introduced to these six intimacies is the first time they are able to put their finger on exactly what is off-kilter, or missing completely, in their marriage!
Research shows that couples wait an average of six years of being unhappy before getting help! 

Sadly, many wait too long and get to the point where they mistakenly believe it’s too late… It doesn’t have to be that way!
Tony and I know it. Both from personal experience, and from seeing it in the lives of the countless people we have worked with.

And the best way to strengthen and help your marriage, is to take care of your 6 Pillars of Intimacy.
So Tony and I Are Hosting THE 6 PILLARS OF INTIMACY VIRTUAL EXPERIENCE SEMINAR! We'll Make It Easy and Fun to Understand and Put the Powerful 6 Pillars to Work For You!
In this Virtual Experience Seminar, we will show you WHY all 6 Pillars are essential to a dynamic, healthy, loving marriage and how they can shift everything between you and your spouse.
We KNOW you're going to love this. 
The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Virtual Experience Seminar will be fun and will give you the tools you need to have the extraordinary marriage you desire. This will be held on Saturday, May 21st, 2022 at 7 AM Pacific / 10 AM Eastern. 

All those who register (if you make the live seminar or not) will get On-Demand access to the recordings after the event. When you watch, you’ll feel almost as if we’re sitting across from you, chatting in a coffee house!

The difference is, unlike sitting at a coffee shop, we’ll be going through your workbook with you and giving you opportunities to connect with your spouse during "Couple Time."

We share these 6 Pillars in a much more in-depth and practical way, that is immediately relevant to you.
Trust me, it’s super cool the way we’ve created this for you!
And I'm so incredibly excited to walk you through exactly how you can use this knowledge to activate, and pump new energy and connection into your marriage. 

I really think you're going to love the way it makes you feel as you watch (live or On-Demand after the seminar), along with the results you'll experience.

During The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Virtual Experience Seminar You Will Discover:

  • 6 ways to build intimacy in your marriage - it’s more than talking more, going on more dates, or more sex.
  • How the 6 Pillars of Intimacy work together so you can experience greater connection. Each intimacy has a role in bringing the two of you closer.
  • How you can take the lead to create a dynamic, healthy, and loving marriage even if your spouse is not ready.
  • The 10-minute quiz that reveals where you and your spouse may want or need an “intimacy adjustment.”
  • Specific action steps you can take to create a dynamic, healthy, and loving marriage, and have greater sexual intimacy.
  • How to have meaningful conversations EVEN WHEN you feel you have nothing to talk about.
  • How to create your own unique style of financial intimacy that works for you both.
  • And much, much more.
Register Today and Join us LIVE on Saturday, May 21st, 2022 for The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Virtual Experience Seminar!

(Registration is Per Couple)

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A Personal Note From Tony and I
Hi, it’s Alisa. Now listen, before you register and get started on your 6 Pillars of Intimacy journey, I want you to know we believe strongly that you will see and experience real life-enhancing results when you join us for The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Virtual Experience Seminar (like so many other couples to whom we have taught this information). We’re confident if you show up and participate in your marriage journey, you'll begin to strengthen your pillars. 

We're going to show up and give you everything we have because we know there's one couple whose marriage depends on it. The question is are you going to show up and give us everything you got?

If so, we'd love to have you register today!
If you read the letter in the little box above, you noticed that I promised that we'll give you everything we have. That's the truth!
If you’ve ever listened to our ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, we end each of them with “Love you guys” and it’s true. 

We do love our listeners and readers. This is why we're excited to see you at The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Virtual Experience Seminar.

The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Virtual Experience Seminar Is For You!

From newlyweds to empty nesters the extraordinary is within reach. No matter what the two of you have faced or the cracks you currently have in your pillars, you can have the extraordinary marriage you desire when you strengthen each of your pillars of intimacy. Where you are today is just the beginning!

Here's What You Can Expect When You Register:

  • You and your spouse will create a personalized plan for how you will strengthen your marriage in each of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy.
  • Conference workbook (digital download) to keep all your notes.
  • Registration is per couple.
  • ​Virtual experience so you can watch anywhere in the world.
  • ​​On-Demand replay (digital) access will be available to all registrants within 96 hours after the seminar ends.

What Makes the Virtual Experience Seminar Different?

The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Virtual Experience Seminar is the easiest way for the two of you to move into a place of deeper conversations, more fun, and better sex. This isn’t your typical sit and listen all day type of virtual marriage event.

We’ve built in COUPLE TIME with every session so that the two of you have time to get practical and get actionable right there at the conference. This is your chance to finally address all those areas of your marriage that you want to strengthen.

What Your Day Will Look Like?

Each session will be a VIRTUAL Streaming Presentation from Tony and Alisa followed by Couple Time, a practical make-it-real exercise for you to do with your spouse. Come along for this journey as you strengthen your pillars of intimacy!
Seminar Access Opens: 6:30 AM Pacific

Morning Sessions Start: 7:00 AM Pacific

Break: 9:30 AM - 10:00 AM Pacific

Afternoon Sessions Start : 10:00 AM Pacific

Wrap Up: 12:30 PM Pacific

What You Need to Know...

  • When: Saturday, May 21st, 2022 at 7 AM Pacific / 10 AM Eastern
  • Seminar Duration: Morning and Afternoon Sessions
  • Cost: $127 per Couple
  • ​Can't Join Live: All registrants will receive the On-Demand replay (digital) of the conference within 96 hours after the conference.
  • ​How to Participate: The conference is run on Zoom in order to be as accessible as possible. After payment, you will receive an email with a link to the conference virtual venue. You’ll need an internet connection and the ability to stream audio and video to participate.
  • ​Includes Q&A Session: Q&A session with Tony and Alisa. 

(Registration is Per Couple)

FAQs

What happens if I can't make it to the seminar after I have registered?
If you and/or your spouse are not able to watch immediately that's OK. You will have On-Demand access to the Virtual Experience Seminar in the ONE Membership. You can watch when the time is best for the two of you. There are no refunds once purchased.

What is Couple Time?
The final portion of each session on the agenda (with the exception of Q&A) will include opportunities for you and your spouse to strengthen your pillars of intimacy in your own marriage based on what was discussed in that session.

I know that this is a marriage seminar, what if my spouse can't attend or doesn't want to attend, can I come by myself?
We understand that there can be many reasons why you may be attending by yourself and we welcome you. We'd love to have you come and learn the strategies so that you can take them back to your marriage.

We're not married yet is this appropriate for us to attend?
Yes, we have many folks in the ONE Family who know that in the future they want to have an extraordinary marriage. Come and learn the strategies as well as the conversations to have as you head into your future marriage.

Have questions? Email us or call 858-876-5663

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The 6 Pillars Of Intimacy Virtual Experience Seminar

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Let Me Show You EVERYTHING You Get When You Register Today For The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Virtual Experience Seminar:

  • ​The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Live Virtual Experience Seminar:                ($199.00 Value)
    8 Sessions Including Q&A
  • ​Seminar Workbook (Digital Download):                                                 ($19.95 Value)
  • On-Demand Replay Access:                                                                       ($99.00 Value)

Total Value $ 317.95

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(Registration is Per Couple)

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Meet Your Hosts

Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo are sought-after speakers, podcast hosts, and coaches on the topics of sex, love, and marriage. They share the hardships and triumphs they have had in their marriage through their site at ONE Extraordinary Marriage. Through their stories, energy, and passion, they inspire couples to live an extraordinary marriage.

Having dealt with the issues of pornography, financial crisis, and child loss, they understand the issues that impact relationships and trust. They work with couples around the world, equipping them with the tools and strategies they need to rebuild broken trust.

Tony & Alisa have been featured on FOX News, The CW, ESPN Radio, Lifestyle Magazine, Good Housekeeping, Ask Dr. Drew, The Guardian, The Chalene Show, and MSN Living. They are the authors of several best selling books, including The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage. Their podcast is consistently the top marriage podcast on iTunes, with an audience around the world.
Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo are sought-after speakers, podcast hosts and coaches on the topics of sex, love and marriage. Their share the hardships and triumphs that they have had in their marriage through their site at ONE Extraordinary Marriage. Through their stories, energy, and passion, they inspire couples to live an extraordinary marriage.

Having dealt with the issues of pornography, financial crisis and child loss, they understand the issues that impact relationships and trust. They work with couples around the world, equipping them with the tools and strategies they need to rebuild broken trust.

Tony & Alisa have been featured on FOX News, The CW, ESPN Radio, Lifestyle Magazine, Good Housekeeping, Ask Dr. Drew, The Guardian, The Chalene Show, and MSN Living. They are the authors of several best selling books, including The 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to an Extraordinary Marriage. Their podcast is consistently the top marriage podcast on iTunes, with an audience around the world.

Register Today for The 6 Pillars of Intimacy Virtual Experience Seminar!

(Registration is Per Couple)

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