You are a special woman…

Before you go any further, can you just pause for a moment and let that sink in? Don’t just let those be words you read, let them be something that hits your heart.

I know that in today's world, it's hard to feel:
  • Beautiful
  • ​Confident
  • ​Empowered
  • ​Connected
  • ​Or part of a community
After spending thousands of hours in coaching sessions, conversations, and time spent with wives, I realized something needed to change.

When things need to change—it's time to take action!

And that’s what I’m doing with the community that I’d like to invite you to be a part of…

See, I didn’t just want to create another Facebook group, support group, or “all talk no action group.”
Wives need other wives, and we need support and encouragement.
When I think back to what’s made the biggest difference in the lives of wives I’ve gotten to know over the last 13+ years, I understand the importance of creating a space where wives would:
  • Feel empowered
  • Encourage one another
  • Honor one another’s journeys
  • Be curious about each other’s experiences
  • Check their judgments at the door
  • and...Ultimately celebrate marriage
This would be a recipe for success and ultimately for strong marriages.

Now, you likely know that I’m not afraid to talk about the tough topics or dig deep into the areas that most are afraid to address. I also know that this can be difficult when a husband is sitting right next to you.

Which is why I’m so excited to announce the…
BOLD WIVES CLUB
I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about the wives I want to do life with and this word BOLD isn’t just a word I pulled out of thin air.

BOLD isn't about being aggressive or overbearing. Really, it’s who I want to be, and it’s what I want to help cultivate in you.

Each letter in the word BOLD stands for our core values that describes who we are and who we are becoming.

B is for BRAVE: We are brave in facing our fears, insecurities, and baggage.

We’ve all got them, and facing them with bravery means that we don’t let things pile up or weigh us down.

O is for OPEN-MINDED: We are open-minded in exploring new ideas, suggestions, and things outside of our comfort zone.

It’s easy to do things the “way we’ve always done them” but together and in the community, we can try new things and explore different ways of looking at the world.

L is for LOVING: We continuously work on loving ourselves, our spouses, and our marriages.

We know it’s not always easy, and it’s not always something that “we want to do” and yet it’s easier when others are encouraging us to do the same.

D is for DECISIVE: We develop the ability to be decisive in what we want, what is important for our health—emotionally, physically, financially, spiritually, recreationally, and sexually.
We take action to live a life of “What can I do?” and build strong marriages with a framework wrapped around The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®.

This will be a group of wives who want to go after solutions and not just complain about their husbands or their marriage. It will be a place where we brainstorm together and seek out answers.

The Bold Wives Club is not a last ditch effort when all hope is lost (one-on-one coaching is a better place for addressing if you’re in this place).

It’s been my experience that there are 2 (main) things that keep women from getting into community with other women:
  • Bad experiences with other women (we’ve all had them) and…
  • Difficulties being vulnerable or feeling safe when sharing your own journey
I get it. These have been my own challenges in the past. 

But just because it’s been hard doesn’t mean that we shy away from it, or don’t keep going after it.
When you become a BOLD Wife, things begin to change!
And I’d love for you to be a part of this…
The BOLD Wives Club will be a place where:  
  • We are open, honest, and transparent.
  • We all take part because none of us can do life well on our own.
  • We stay in the community through BOLD Wives Club meetings and special events.
  • We talk about the hard things and the taboo things.
  • We celebrate one another’s wins.
What BOLD Wives Club Members Are Saying...
My name is Sheila and I've been married to Duane for 32 years.

We have been blessed to live and raise our family around a large community of extended family and good friends.

We are now two years into the empty nest stage, and we are pleasantly surprised how good these days can be.

As I've been thinking more about this season of my life, I realize how good it is for me to surround myself with women who are intentional about loving their husbands well, being open to learning and growing, and making health a priority in body, mind, and spirit.

The Bold Wives Club is full of women doing just that.

I don't believe we can have too many encouraging & supportive women around us.
—Sheila T.
I’ve been thrilled over the past year, being able to leave my full-time employment do work supporting churches and non-profits with accounting consulting. This has been such a blessing for me and I’ve developed some strong relationships with several churches. It’s also allowed me time to work on myself, my priorities, my wounds, and my marriage. But it’s still growing and I’m only working in a part-time capacity without benefits.

Because my husband has not yet found his next career, I’ve felt pressure to get back into the full-time workforce to bring in additional income and obtain benefits so that our family remains insured.

So today, I was speaking with the office manager at my largest church, one that has 7 campuses and a large staff who do receive benefits from working full-time. She asked how my husbands job search was going and I told her that I am very worried about having to leave the work that I’m doing if I have to work elsewhere for the income/benefits. And the BOLD lightbulb just came on!!!! I did it, I asked her, what about your church - any plans for hiring a full-time finance position? She loved the idea and recommended I reach out to the lead pastor. So I hung up, didn’t hesitate one bit, and called the lead pastor!

He asked me to send him my resume and talk to my husband about my salary requirements and a plan for how I would manage a hybrid work schedule. We’re going to speak Tuesday next week to discuss the opportunity!! Ah!!!!!!!!

I truly appreciate the work we’ve been doing in Bold Wives Club, because I think it’s making me stronger, recognizing that I can be bold and decisive and not be afraid! Thank you!!!
—Sandy G.
What will we do together?
  • Our meetings will focus on bringing out the BOLDNESS in you—whether through specific conversations, worksheets, or small breakout rooms. You'll feel supported, connected, and encouraged by the other BOLD Wives. We have 2 virtual club meetings per month. 
  • We talk about the topics you really want to discuss and develop our ability to be BOLD women. Topics like body image, initiating sex, those tough conversations, menopause, life after kids, and more—the topics that matter to you in a place where you can be real and transparent. This happens both in club meetings and in the private Facebook group.
  • There will be special online sessions with curated experts from my personal contacts. I know I don’t know everything about everything. I want to bring you the best of the best about different areas of life, marriage, and being a woman.
  • As we grow, we'll add in-person events because face-to-face is SO INCREDIBLE. This will give you an opportunity to meet and spend time with other BOLD Wives.
Now, I know that this type of community isn’t for everyone, but I know it’s right for some key women and you’re one of the women that I would like to have with me from the beginning—as a BOLD Wives Club Member.
As a member, you’re going to get all that I mentioned above plus the BOLD Wives Welcome Gift which includes a BOLD Wives Club hat, 20oz stainless steel tumbler, and journal. You will also have a hand in developing this community. I know I need special women by my side to do this.
BOLD Wives Club members will have access to this community at the absolute best value at $485 for 6 months membership in BOLD Wives Club!

That’s one month FREE!
I know some budgets need a monthly option and for members, that will be $97/month.

Either way, as a member, you get the absolute best, for being one of the first to say, "Yes, I want a community like this!”

Click the link below to join as a member and be part of the BOLD Wives Club today!
At that time I'll be closing the doors to spend time with you and all the BOLD Wives. 

I look forward to walking alongside you as you become the BOLD wife I know you are.

See you in the club!

Alisa

Alisa DiLorenzo is a certified marriage coach, wife, and mother of two grown children.

In addition to being a best-selling author, Alisa is co-host of the top rated marriage podcast, ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show, alongside her husband.

Over the last 13+ years Alisa has helped wives become Brave, Open minded, Loving and Decisive. Be part of a supportive community, create deeper connection, and ultimately celebrate marriage. Your bold journey starts here!
P.S. - if you're skimming and just wanted to see what's coming up... for just $97, you can be a member of the BOLD Wives Club a community to help you be all that you've been called to be. 
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