Your heart sinks in your chest at the sound of those words…
Suddenly, all hope is taken away from you.
How can you fix the lack of love?
You ask your spouse for one more chance, to see if you can stir something within them.
You’re ready to bring your A game, but they say no.
You remind them of how long you’ve been together, of the life you’ve built together.
You’re not prepared to let it all go, why are they?
Why won’t they at least try?
First and foremost, it’s NOT a reflection of you!
In fact, all this is, is what’s called the Entrenchment Effect.
When spouses entrench, they grow distant and avoidant, prone to conflict and completely unwilling to listen to reason. In fact, the more you try to talk to them, the more convicted they become in their decision to leave.
Many people even think their spouse is going through a midlife crisis, or has turned into a narcissist overnight, simply because they don’t know about the Entrenchment Effect.
And when that happens… When we don’t take the necessary steps to disentrench our spouse, their unwillingness to even reconsider their decision can only lead to one outcome…
And that’s divorce…
If this all feels very familiar and you feel you’re rowing alone to save your marriage, the very first and most important thing that you need to know is that, yes, it is possible!
We’ve partnered with our friend Andre Santos who specializes in saving relationships in these exact circumstances when you’re rowing alone against an entrenched spouse.
Andre has helped thousands of individuals save their relationships without their entrenched spouses’ cooperation in his program “The Science of Connection”, and in this Masterclass he’s going to show you how you can do it too!
Your spouse doesn’t need to be present. They don’t need to be interested. They don’t need to be willing to work on things. They don’t even need to be in love with you.
Because those are the things Andre will teach you how to change.