The 6 Pillars in

PARADISE

Marriage Getaway

The 6 Pillars in

PARADISE

Marriage Getaway

Create Memorable Moments in Marriage and Experience the Extraordinary Marriage You Desire!

When: April 3rd - 7th, 2024
Where: Haven Resort & Spa, Cancun, Mexico
Who: Space is Limited! Only 30 SOLD OUT!
Create Memorable Moments in Marriage and Experience the Extraordinary Marriage You Desire!

When: April 3rd - 7th, 2024
Where: Haven Resort & Spa, Cancun, Mexico
Who: Space is Limited! Only 30 SOLD OUT!

ARE YOU PART OF THE ONE FAMILY

WHO IS…

  • Seeking direction on where you want to take your life as husband and wife?
  • Committed to one another, healed, grown, and achieved a lot, and have “arrived” at your initial marriage milestones… but now you’re stepping into a new phase, wondering, “what now?”
  • Familiar with The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework and has been able to move things forward but are feeling somehow unfulfilled, dissatisfied, or exhausted by the way you’ve been building and creating deeper intimacy?
  • Having children, friends, or family looking to you for direction and a vision to follow, but you struggle to guide them because you’re not totally clear yourself?
OR MAYBE….
  • You’re passionate about sharing what you’ve experienced in your marriage, but you have a difficult time communicating it to those around you so they get it.
  • You’re clear about what you want in certain areas of your life but not others.
  • You’re clear on what you want in your career or business… but not your relationship together or with others. Or vice-versa.
  • You want to grow faster in one or more of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, but you keep getting dragged into the day-to-day busyness by your work or other factors and can’t seem to get the BIG breakthrough.
  • You have the one extraordinary marriage vision, but your friends or family don't see it, and it’s frustrating because you feel like you’re on two different channels.

If you find yourself nodding your head, you’re invited to register for…

The 6 Pillars In Paradise Marriage Getaway

WHAT PAST ATTENDESS ARE SAYING...

Eye Opening Experience

The experience was one of a kind and so much more than I expected. I was able to connect with my husband in a way I couldn't imagine. We talked on a deeper level than ever before and we made time to just talk about us. It was great to hear other couples talking about positive marriages and the struggles they endure. It gave the feeling like we were not the only couple to struggle with these obstacles. Hearing other couples, especially men, opening up and being vulnerable was comforting. I could use all the adjectives here. We will most certainly attend every year that we are able. 

A Breath of Fresh Air

The 6 Pillars in Paradise Marriage Retreat was a breath of fresh air. It was so encouraging to be around other couples who have gone through things we are experiencing and who can share their insights and perspectives. We felt so rested when we returned home, even despite filling our days with tons of activities. It was a moment to just be alone as spouses, learn from others, and have intentional time set aside to talk about what we want our marriage to be. 

We Learned From Other Couples

The first 6 Pillars in Paradise was an incredible experienced. Tony and Alisa brought together couples with such a broad range of year together, and a continuum of health in their marriage. As always, we learned so much from Alisa and Tony, but the surprise was all we learned from other couples who were there seeking an extraordinary marriage. Through the discussions and sessions, we learned from others who are learning from OEM. We heard things in a new way. It was wonderful to be in such a marriage positive and sex positive gathering. We can’t wait to get back together next year!

ARE YOU PART OF THE ONE FAMILY

WHO IS…

  • Seeking direction on where you want to take your life as husband and wife?
  • Committed to one another, healed, grown, and achieved a lot, and have “arrived” at your initial marriage milestones… but now you’re stepping into a new phase, wondering, “what now?”
  • Familiar with The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework and has been able to move things forward but are feeling somehow unfulfilled, dissatisfied, or exhausted by the way you’ve been building and creating deeper intimacy?
  • Having children, friends, or family looking to you for direction and a vision to follow, but you struggle to guide them because you’re not totally clear yourself?
OR MAYBE….
  • You’re passionate about sharing what you’ve experienced in your marriage, but you have a difficult time communicating it to those around you so they get it.
  • You’re clear about what you want in certain areas of your life but not others.
  • You’re clear on what you want in your career or business… but not your relationship together or with others. Or vice-versa.
  • You want to grow faster in one or more of The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®, but you keep getting dragged into the day-to-day busyness by your work or other factors and can’t seem to get the BIG breakthrough.
  • You have the one extraordinary marriage vision, but your friends or family don't see it, and it’s frustrating because you feel like you’re on two different channels.

If you find yourself nodding your head, you’re invited to register for…

The 6 Pillars In Paradise Marriage Getaway

DIVE  INTO THE 6 PILLARS OF INTIMACY®

Go beyond the words on the page or the podcast to bring The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® to life in your marriage. With in-person teaching from Tony and Alisa, couples' exercises to do at the getaway and at home, and real time opportunities to connect with them during the marriage getaway, this is your chance to build your 6 Pillars of Intimacy® marriage toolbox.

QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR LOVE

You know that time away with your love is special and it serves as a reset for your connection. The 6 Pillars in Paradise Getaway is an extraordinary way to disconnect from daily life so the two of you can connect with one another, strengthen your connection, and enjoy uninterrupted time—just the two of you.

YOUR OWN EXTRAORDINARY MARRIAGE COMMUNITY

One of the biggest requests that we hear from the ONE Family is this…How do we connect with others who want to have an extraordinary marriage? The 6 Pillars in Paradise Getaway is your answer. With couples coming to Mexico from all over, you’ll make new friends and get to spend time with other couples who not only understand The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® framework, but who are using it to build their own extraordinary marriage. Surround yourself with people who are doing life well.

YOUR INTIMATE HAVEN
 CANCUN, MEXICO

Warm water, white sandy beaches, ocean breezes…everything the two of you need to rest, relax, and get away from the stresses of your day-to-day life. Let’s face it, getting away to warm weather, beautiful blue water and the ocean lapping at your feet sounds like heaven.

NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT ONCE YOU GET THERE

Two words: All inclusive. It’s incredible to go on vacation and not have to think about finances. When the two of you pay for a vacation ahead of time, you get to travel without financial stress.

*Tours and Excursions are not included in the package price.

ALL-INCLUSIVE DINING

The marriage getaway includes all dining at the resort. Which includes breakfast, lunch, dinner, drinks, and snacks that will keep you nourished and energized throughout the day.
Dining Option:
— Olios (Southern Europe)
— Agua Bendita (Mexican Steak House)
— Satsu (Asian Fusion)
— Vora Mar (Italian)
— Flavours (Marketplace)
— Mistral (Snack Bar)
— Mocaccino (Coffee shop and Deli)
SAVOR EVERY MOMENT
ADULTS ONLY ALL-INCLUSIVE RESORT
An oceanfront sanctuary of luxury and sophistication awaits you at Haven Riviera Cancún: An adult-only, all-inclusive resort placed between Cancún and Riviera Maya. Spectacular views of the sparkling Caribbean Sea will inspire your every moment in our 250 acres of beautifully landscaped grounds.

Our intimate realm of style, glamour, and seclusion will make you feel as if you have a tiny corner of Mexico’s coastline just for you.  

  • Unlimited dining and local liquors
  • 24/7 room service
  • MySenses Spa
  • Modern fitness center with instructor-led classes
  • Coffee shop and Deli
  • Complimentary Wi-Fi and in-suite USB charging outlets
  • Group sections for all attendees at pool and beach
  • 8 Restaurants
  • 7 Bars
  •  2 Swimming pools

LUXURY ACCOMODATIONS

JUNIOR SUITE PARTIAL OCEAN VIEW

Private balcony with custom furnishings and whirlpool tub

Prepare to be wowed as you discover your personal Haven in a luxurious all-inclusive Junior Suite designed to pamper and satisfy even your unexpressed desires. 

With warm, inviting colors and rich fabrics, you’ll be surrounded by contemporary Mexican design. Awake in your King bed with your personal view of lush fauna, flora, and the ocean beyond. Premium linens and spa quality amenities await you. 

Create your personal ambiance with the aromatherapy and refreshment selections at your fingertips. Stay connected with complimentary Wi-Fi, then disconnect by taking a relaxing whirlpool bath on your private balcony.

*Pricing Does Not Include Air Travel

JUNIOR SUITE PARTIAL OCEAN VIEW

Private balcony with custom furnishings and whirlpool tub

Prepare to be wowed as you discover your personal Haven in a luxurious all-inclusive Junior Suite designed to pamper and satisfy even your unexpressed desires. 

With warm, inviting colors and rich fabrics you’ll be surrounded in contemporary Mexican design. Awake in your King bed with your personal view of lush fauna, flora, and the ocean beyond. Premium linens and spa quality amenities await you. 

Create your personal ambiance with the aromatherapy and refreshment selections at your fingertips. Stay connected with complimentary Wi-Fi, then disconnect by taking a relaxing whirlpool bath on your private balcony.

*Pricing Does Not Include Air Travel

ALL LUXURY JUNIOR SUITES OFFER:

  • Pillowtop King bed with plush bedding
  • Bathroom with dual sinks and rain shower
  • Sitting area with sofa
  • Complimentary internet & Wi-Fi access
  • Daily stocked personalized mini bar
  • 50” flat-screen TV with Cable/satellite television channels, surround sound, Bluetooth and USB access
  • Electronic safety deposit box with charging capability
  • Around-the-clock room service
  • Private balcony with custom furnishings and whirlpool tub
  • Steam equipment for clothes
  • Maid service two times daily including nightly turn down service
  • Nespresso coffee machine with capsule menu
  • Vanity mirror
  • A/C with individual thermostat and ceiling fan

SERENITY CLUB JUNIOR SUITE

Ocean View

 

Indulge in your enhanced all-inclusive Serenity Club experience designed to rejuvenate your heart and soul. Awake in your King-sized bed with your personal view of lush fauna, flora, and the ocean beyond. Warm, inviting colors and rich fabrics inspired by the mangroves' tropical setting. 

Stay connected with high-speed Wi-Fi and flat screen TV. Your dedicated concierge will work with the carefully chosen premium amenities to create your own atmosphere in your luxurious Junior Suite. 

End your perfect day with a relaxing whirlpool bath on your private balcony as you desire, as it is your exclusive Haven.

*Pricing Does Not Include Air Travel
  • 735 ft²
  • 1 King Bed
  • 14 SOLD OUT

SERENITY CLUB AMENITIES

  • Exceptional, dedicated concierge service
  • Exclusive Check-in lounge. From 7:00 AM to 11:00 PM.
  • Preferred room locations
  • Personalized mini bar restocked daily
  • Access to the exclusive Serenity Club Lounge, with a selection of wines, premium spirits, and small bites throughout the day. Open 7:00 AM to 11:00 PM.
  • Premium aromatherapy and Haven signature toiletries
  • Complimentary green fees at El Tinto golf course with cart included
  • Exclusive à la carte dining served at Vistas and Tahani restaurants
  • Exclusive beach area with dedicated bar and waiter service
  • Evening hors d'oeuvres and afternoon snacks including decadent desserts in lounge
  • Upgraded room service menu
  • 10% discount on Spa treatments
  • 30min. of hydrotherapy or sauna/steam circuit at MySenses Spa. Contact your Concierge
  • Nightly turndown service
  • Exceptional, dedicated concierge service
  • Exclusive Check-in lounge. From 7:00AM to 11:00 PM.
  • Preferred room locations
  • Personalized mini bar restocked daily
  • Access to the exclusive Serenity Club Lounge, with a selection of wines, premium spirits, and small bites throughout the day. Open 7:00 AM to 11:00 PM.
  • Premium aromatherapy and Haven signature toiletries
  • Complimentary green fees at El Tinto golf course with cart included
  • Exclusive à la carte dining served at Vistas and Tahani restaurants
  • Exclusive beach area with dedicated bar and waiter service
  • Evening hors d'oeuvres and afternoon snacks including decadent desserts in lounge
  • Upgraded room service menu
  • 10% discount on Spa treatments
  • 30min. of hydrotherapy or sauna/steam circuit at MySenses Spa. Contact your Concierge
  • Nightly turndown service
SAVOR EVERY MOMENT
ADULTS ONLY ALL-INCLUSIVE RESORT
An oceanfront sanctuary of luxury and sophistication awaits you at Haven Riviera Cancún: An adult-only, all-inclusive resort placed between Cancún and Riviera Maya. Spectacular views of the sparkling Caribbean Sea will inspire your every moment in our 250 acres of beautifully landscaped grounds.

Our intimate realm of style, glamour, and seclusion will make you feel as if you have a tiny corner of Mexico’s coastline just for you.  

  • Unlimited dining and local liquors
  • 24/7 room service
  • MySenses Spa
  • Modern fitness center with instructor-led classes
  • Coffee shop and Deli
  • Complimentary Wi-Fi and in-suite USB charging outlets
  • Group sections for all attendees at pool and beach
  • 8 Restaurants
  • 7 Bars
  •  2 Swimming pools

LUXURY ACCOMODATIONS

JUNIOR SUITE PARTIAL OCEAN VIEW

Private balcony with custom furnishings and whirlpool tub

Prepare to be wowed as you discover your personal Haven in a luxurious all-inclusive Junior Suite designed to pamper and satisfy even your unexpressed desires. 

With warm, inviting colors and rich fabrics, you’ll be surrounded by contemporary Mexican design. Awake in your King bed with your personal view of lush fauna, flora, and the ocean beyond. Premium linens and spa quality amenities await you. 

Create your personal ambiance with the aromatherapy and refreshment selections at your fingertips. Stay connected with complimentary Wi-Fi, then disconnect by taking a relaxing whirlpool bath on your private balcony.

*Pricing Does Not Include Air Travel

ALL LUXURY JUNIOR SUITES OFFER:

  • Pillowtop King bed with plush bedding
  • Bathroom with dual sinks and rain shower
  • Sitting area with sofa
  • Complimentary internet & Wi-Fi access
  • Daily stocked personalized mini bar
  • 50” flat-screen TV with Cable/satellite television channels, surround sound, Bluetooth and USB access
  • Electronic safety deposit box with charging capability
  • Around-the-clock room service
  • Private balcony with custom furnishings and whirlpool tub
  • Steam equipment for clothes
  • Maid service two times daily including nightly turn down service
  • Nespresso coffee machine with capsule menu
  • Vanity mirror
  • A/C with individual thermostat and ceiling fan

SERENITY CLUB JUNIOR SUITE

Partial Ocean View

Indulge in your enhanced all-inclusive Serenity Club experience designed to rejuvenate your heart and soul. Awake in your King-sized bed with your personal view of lush fauna, flora, and the ocean beyond. Warm, inviting colors and rich fabrics inspired by the mangroves' tropical setting. 

Stay connected with high-speed Wi-Fi and flat screen TV. Your dedicated concierge will work with the carefully chosen premium amenities to create your own atmosphere in your luxurious Junior Suite. 

End your perfect day with a relaxing whirlpool bath on your private balcony as you desire, as it is your exclusive Haven.

*Pricing Does Not Include Air Travel
  • 735 ft²
  • 1 King Bed
  • 14 SOLD OUT

SERENITY CLUB AMENITIES

  • Exceptional, dedicated concierge service
  • Exclusive Check-in lounge. From 7:00 AM to 11:00 PM.
  • Preferred room locations
  • Personalized mini bar restocked daily
  • Access to the exclusive Serenity Club Lounge, with a selection of wines, premium spirits, and small bites throughout the day. Open 7:00 AM to 11:00 PM.
  • Premium aromatherapy and Haven signature toiletries
  • Complimentary green fees at El Tinto golf course with cart included
  • Exclusive à la carte dining served at Vistas and Tahani restaurants
  • Exclusive beach area with dedicated bar and waiter service
  • Evening hors d'oeuvres and afternoon snacks including decadent desserts in lounge
  • Upgraded room service menu
  • 10% discount on Spa treatments
  • 30min. of hydrotherapy or sauna/steam circuit at MySenses Spa. Contact your Concierge
  • Nightly turndown service

Meet Tony &  Alisa DiLorenzo

Over our 26 years of marriage, we’ve learned some hard life lessons and we’ve discovered key principles that have kept our marriage (and sex life) alive and flourishing… and we did it together.

Our desire is to do the same for you!⁠

⁠You strive to grow, get better, and have the marriage you desire. You want to leave a lasting impact on those around you.

But sometimes things get in the way.

There just seems to be too much to do and too little time for you to look at each other, talk to each other, and connect with each other.

Be honest:
  • Do you wish for the same level of connection and intimacy you once had?
  • Do you need the emotional skills to stay in sync with your partner?
  • Do you fear the important things are falling through the cracks?
If so, you’re not alone. All of us have felt this way.

We Know How You Feel

We know what it feels like to have cracks in our pillars and not be connected emotionally, to build trust and focus on our sexual intimacy, and to have stress and the daily grind of life zap you of all energy, while still trying to attend to the things that matter most—family, health, faith, and community.

For years, we struggled to get on the same page. Too often, our success in other areas came at the expense of our connection and closeness.

We have faced the stark reality that there’s always more to do than there is time.

The 6 Pillars of Intimacy®

At its best, your marriage is a balance between your spouse, kids, family, and all the other activities that are pulling at you.

The 6 Pillars in Paradise Marriage Getaway is an opportunity for you to dial in on how each of the six intimacies is showing up in your marriage so your marriage can continue to strengthen and grow on solid ground.
Emotional Intimacy: Creating closeness through sharing feeling, thoughts, and desires.

Physical Intimacy: Holding hands, hugs, kisses, cuddles, and other non-sexual touch.

Financial Intimacy: Sharing of your financial situation as you develop a plan for your financial future.

Spiritual Intimacy: Sharing religious beliefs and observe religious practices.

Recreational Intimacy: Spending time with your spouse through activities and fun.

Sexual Intimacy: Romance, initiating, foreplay, and sexual intercourse with your spouse.
Most couples wouldn’t think twice about planning a vacation…this marriage getaway is the best of both worlds.

This can be a time for you to experience new breakthroughs while unplugging from the stress and distractions that keep you and your spouse from experiencing the extraordinary marriage you desire and deserve.
TENTATIVE SESSION SCHEDULE
  • Wednesday, April 3rd — Meet & Greet: 6 - 8 PM
  • Thursday, April 4th — Session 1: 9 AM - 12 PM
  • Friday, April 5th — Session 2: 9 AM - 12 PM
  • Saturday, April 6th — Session 3: 7 - 10 PM
  • Sunday, April 7th — Closing Breakfast: 7 AM
Session schedule will be finalized prior to the start of The 6 Pillars in Paradise Marriage Getaway.

FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

What does pricing include?
Includes luxury accommodations, all-inclusive dining options, and group sessions with Tony & Alisa, from the time you arrive in Cancun, Mexico to the time you depart. Does not includes air travel or tours and excursions.

What is the refund policy? And what happens if we need to cancel? 
  • Your $1000 deposit is non-refundable. Once you register, this amount is NOT refundable. 
  • Up to November 2, 2023: All monies LESS the $1000 non-refundable deposit plus 1-Night Cancellation Penalty will be refunded.
  • November 3, 2023 to February 15, 2024: All monies LESS the $1000 non-refundable deposit plus 2-Night Cancellation Penalty will be refunded.
  • After February 16, 2023: No refund issued after this date.
***To cancel your reservation, you must email our Customer Care Team with your name, phone number, and registration number. Refunds will be based on dates above.
Is airfare included? 
Airfare is not included in the getaway pricing.

You’ll want to fly into the airport in Cancun International Airport (airport code) CUN. The airport is approximately 15-20 minutes from the hotel depending on traffic. 

Is transportation to hotel and airport included?
You can relax knowing that your transportation (shuttle van) is taken care of for no additional cost to Haven Resort & Spa and Cancun International Airport.

What if we are not married? 
The getaway is designed for married couples and we ask that all attendees be married.

Do we need passports?
You will need a valid passport book to travel to Mexico. Please check the expiration date on your current passport to make sure it will be valid during the trip date. A passport card or birth certificate will not be accepted to travel outside of the US.

Is the getaway designed for couples having serious challenges? Or on the brink of divorce? 
It is not. If you are experiencing serious challenges or feel your marriage is on the brink of divorce, we would recommend you first start with coaching so that you can get your marriage into a healthier season, you can enjoy the marriage getaway.

What will the schedule look like? How much free time will we have? 
The plan is to have teachings in the morning (but not too early because hey “morning sex” is a good thing) and to wrap up by lunch. Afternoons and evenings will be for you to connect with one another and the other couples who are attending the getaway.

What if we want to get off the resort? 
The hotel does offer tours and excursions however these are not included in the getaway pricing.
6 Pillars in Paradise
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